personal awareness

It's important to recognize our own strengths and weaknesses, as well as our tendencies and preferences. Self-awareness can help us better understand how we interact with our relationship partners and how we can improve our connection skills.

relationship partner awareness

Each person has their own unique temperament, communication style, and way of processing information. By observing and understanding our relationship partner’s personality, we can better tailor our interactions and strategies to meet their individual needs.

identify the gap

Once we have a good understanding of both our own personality and our partner's personality, we can find “the gap” and learn to adapt our interactions to be more effective. This means being mindful of our communication style, adjusting our expectations and communication style to fit our partner's needs, and being willing to try new approaches when something isn't working.

apply the strategies

We can apply the right strategies to have a “relationship by design”. This means using intentional techniques that are tailored to your partner's personality and needs.

Overall, relationship by design means using our knowledge of personalities to communicate in a way that is tailored to our partner's needs and personality. It takes time, effort, and patience, but the results are well worth it: happy, confident, and well-adjusted people who feel loved and supported by their relationship partners.